At the heart of so much of the fighting in relationships are two extremely dangerous foreign systems - the Inner Matriarch and the Inner Patriarch. They fight each other constantly and they encourage fights particularly between men and women.
The only thing they have in common is that they are both dedicated to keeping all men and all women out of loving,trusting successful grown-up relationships at home, at work or anywhere else.
While these two characters are fighting they destroy our friendships, break down trust, kill love. Depending on which of the toxic two are the more powerful they can block self awareness in males or clamp females.
They can stop everyone from growing their self awareness and self empowerment.
Now you can discover ways to deal with these two dangerous characters and undo the harm they have created fighting their endless battles inside us.
Male or female, straight or gay, we all have an Inner Patriarch and an Inner Matriarch inside us. Dealing with Inner Matriarchs and Patriarchs can involve subtle and not so subtle differences depending which one is the more powerful. It’s not about gender preferences or sexuality. It’s about the different ways things work depending on your energy system.
If your primary energy system is male you will tend to have the bigger problems with your Inner Matriarch and also with Inner Matriarchs in other people.
If your primary energy system is female you will tend to have more problems with your Inner Patriarch and with Inner Patriarchs in other people. Sidra Stone has devoted an entire book to the inner patriarch in her exceptional work “The Shadow King” where she explains what women can do to reduce the influence the negative effects of the Inner Patriarch.
On this site I am setting out to do something similar for males in terms of the problems they face with Inner Matriarchs.
How can I deal with these two Toxic Trouble Makers ?
There are ways to deal with these two trouble makers. The first step is self-awareness, recognising and unmasking what they are doing inside you. The day you can say to your own Inner Patriarch and Inner Matriarch “I am on to you now! I can see you fighting inside me and I don’t want it happening any more!” is the day you start to reduce their power over you and begin repairing the terrible damage they have been doing to your relationships.
The day your partner says to you “I know that was your Inner Matriarch / Patriarch speaking. I do not like him / her and I know he / she doesn’t like me. I am so glad it is not the real person I love!” is a wonderful day for both of you. This site will help you in your struggle to free yourself from their hold and get back to loving, caring grown-up relationships again.
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